Ok, so everyone keeps telling me that I need to start a blog. The things my children say and do are priceless and crazy sometimes and I would love to keep record of it for reasons to be mentioned when they reach childbearing years...hahahaha!!!! Like my mother always told me "I hope you have children just like YOU!!!!" Well, whatever she did worked, some kind of curse, I dont know, but it definetly worked!! I currently have a 13 year old ( man that cannot be, I am not old enough for that) girl that is a very bright and confident young girl, she is a straight A student that does not make A's, she would rather socialize then make the grades i guess!! I have a very wild and creative 11 year old boy who sometimes tests my patience!! And, a very independent and strong willed beautiful 10 year old girl, who will not let anyone tell her she cannot do something!! And my baby who is 8 now, very much a mamas girl and always has been, she is very smart and pretty!! We own a farm, a u-pick pumpkin patch, and have currently 19 cats, 1 dog and 2 fish!! I am a Parent Educator and love my job, and my husband is a Fire Captain.
I have really decided to start blogging because we are about to start on a huge adventure with my 11 year old son. He was diagnosed ADHD about 6 years ago in kindergarten, he could not sit still to save his life and i think his main goal in life was to be a siren when he got older, because that is all he did was run around the house nonstop making siren noises!!!!Anyways, after he was diagnosed we were not really wanting to medicate him, the Doctors had told us that he was a very classic case of ADHD and we could try diet and other options, but that we would probably be back in the office sooner or later. We reluctently put him on meds and were amazed at the difference it made in him, he was actually sitting on the floor playing board games!! Never have we seen him do that before. He still struggled with schoolwork off and on, when he began reading i told his teacher i was concerned that he kept switching whole words around in the sentences, she told me not to be concerned he was doing just fine. In about the second grade when he started adding 2 and 3 digit numbers again i was conerned because he would turn whole numbers around and add them backwards, again i was told not to worry about it, he was doing fine. Well, we had a really rough 3rd and 4th grade years and this year is not proving to be much better!! So, setting in a conference with all his teachers, counselor, principle and the head of specia ed, and the head of special ed asked if we had ever heard of Vision Therapy?? No, this was the first i had heard of it and th schools OT and the teacher and I filled out questionairs about this on him. He tested very high referred so we set up an evaluation with a Developmental Optomitrist. It took 90 minutes and it was a interesting eval. they did lots of things with him including looking at his primitive reflexes. Primitive Reflexes are reflexes everyone is born with to help us survive our first years, and then they go away because we dont need them anymore, well we found out that day that he still had 4 of the 5 of these still present!! We also found out that he has what is called convergence insuffiency. This is where he has to work so hard at getting his eyes to work together to do school work and read that he tires quickly, and his comprehension goes way down. But, this may have been his problem all along, alot of kids are apparently mislabeled ADHD and this therapy will help him. We had to discuss this and think long and hard about our decision because the therapy will be 1 hour a week for forty weeks at $130 a week and insurance does not cover it!! We do not have that kind of money, but decided how can we deny a child their eyesight, that is his life!! And the therapy place is an hour away, that means he will miss about 3 hours of school each week!! And that is alot of gas money and alot of extra time put in by us!! It was a hard decision, but i will be making that phone call tomorrow to set up the first therapy appt. God will help us through all of our concerns and it will be ok i have no doubt!! I think that I have been called to this and to blog about it for other families that may be going throught the same things!! I think that if it helps just one child, it is worth it!! Thanks for following!!!! And let the story begin..................